tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post8930476696511139956..comments2024-01-31T13:00:52.251-06:00Comments on Jacob and Carrie :: NowHere: TornCarriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04034200516625588607noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-35221299692043800722009-01-05T14:15:00.000-06:002009-01-05T14:15:00.000-06:00Carrie - I just found your blog the other day, thr...Carrie - <BR/><BR/>I just found your blog the other day, through a post on Tonggu Momma's blog, and now I'm reading backwards through a few of your posts. Can I just say, I COMPLETELY get this post? I haven't worked in an orphanage, but I understand what you're saying. I worked as a missionary, for 18 months, in Hong Kong. Coming "home" was an odd thing. I ended up marrying a wonderful man from Hong Kong, and we're raising our two children as Eurasian as possible - bi-cultural, bi-lingual. (Their father and I are both fluent in Cantonese and English.) <BR/><BR/>I just wanted to say that I understand part of what you're feeling - I was struck, when I came back to the States, how HUGE everything is here. My bedroom was the size of some of the apartments I visited in Hong Kong. <BR/><BR/>God bless you as you serve those children. Thank you.LunaMoonbeamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09945247325982035591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-20425200263821388582008-12-31T00:05:00.000-06:002008-12-31T00:05:00.000-06:00Carrie, you will have it all; but not all at the s...Carrie, you will have it all; but not all at the same time. I've spent extended time periods in other countries, and I understand totally, what you're describing, about not feeling at home in the US. I always found my return to the US more difficult than being in Russia for months at a time. I stood in line to grocery shop, had limited food choices, and didn't speak the language. It was still easier than my return to the US each time. Despite the fact that I'd lived in the US for my entire life, I was stunned by the color, the excessive amount of choices, and the comforts that we lived with in the US. I too, was amazed that people i knew made a conscious decision to close their eyes to the disparity between our lives in the US, and the lives of others, in different parts of the world. If I was in the US., I was missing people in Russia. If I was in Russia, I was missing my family and friends in the US. Part of you is always left in the other part of your world. I am an ESL teacher and look forward to teaching internationally, hopefully in China, in several years. I'm glad I had my experiences in Russia, as I feel it will help me prepare my daughters, who were born in China, for the experience of moving to another country. My older daughter is 10 and my younger daughter is 5. Their early experiences in orphanages changed who they are as people. My kids have challenges that kids raised with loving families from the beginning, do not have. Thank you for the work you do, and thank you for sharing it with us. I am a board member for The Red Thread Promise. We're a non-profit organization and we provide medical care for orphans. I contacted Pam about a year ago, and asked if we could be of support to her. We were able to help with one of her little boys, recently. I hope that we can be of support to you in the future. The link for The Red Thread is on my family blog, if you would like to read more about us. <BR/>JeanaTwice Blessed China Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13754429392001277584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-32831741581025286512008-12-17T13:35:00.000-06:002008-12-17T13:35:00.000-06:00Carrie,After getting to know you better in China I...Carrie,<BR/>After getting to know you better in China I realized that you and Jacob are truly extraordinary people with truly an extraordinary life!! After reading this post on the 11th my initial impression was that an "ordinary" life outside of China could never fulfill such an extraordinary couple. This particular post has stayed in my head and now that I have personally wrestled your dilemma for a week, I have a new perspective. Although here on earth we have created borders, which make it appear we live in different worlds, states, and countries, I do not believe he sees these artificial lines of demarcation. What makes you and Jacob so extraordinary is your service to him. This "world of service" can occur anywhere on this beautiful planet. Today's post, "Part I" of the Hannah story reminds me of how he speaks. Just as your life changed as you drove down the interstate, he will let you know what side of the planet he wants your "world of service" to continue on. Sara M.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-77539892543795678592008-12-15T04:38:00.000-06:002008-12-15T04:38:00.000-06:00Hi CarrieWhat a moving piece, it held me spellboun...Hi Carrie<BR/>What a moving piece, it held me spellbound. How lucky you are to have such deep experieces for one so young. Some people never have the chance or take the chance to experience ro feel as you do. As you get older you will realise that material things are not such a big deal. Enjoy your life, your are making such a difference.<BR/>Regard for the UK.Eunicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14110523179375548478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-52958926588354393722008-12-14T22:12:00.000-06:002008-12-14T22:12:00.000-06:00I saw a quote that came to mind when I read this p...I saw a quote that came to mind when I read this post<BR/><BR/>I hear and I forget,<BR/>I see and I remember,<BR/>I do and I understand~Confucius<BR/><BR/>I can understand where you are coming from in that I have a child from China and am in process for #2 and I don't see us ending at 2 or 3 or....because how can we??? Knowing what we know. Everyday the children that are left are with me and I cannot forget them...nor do I want to!! I want to do more!! We have one child, we sponsor two children monthly, we are adopting again, we held a fundraiser for LWB and it is not enough. I have such a need and desire and passion in my heart for the motherless and fatherless. I don't see living in China in my future....but I still understand your heart. I am so thankful to follow your journal. Thank You!!<BR/>www.thehewgleys.blogspot.comJenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02728876832555153795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-40436705148848916142008-12-14T15:05:00.000-06:002008-12-14T15:05:00.000-06:00I can feel the turmoil you must be feeling. I am ...I can feel the turmoil you must be feeling. I am pretty sure I will be able to identify with you soon enough. I got a small taste of it this last week but I know it is going to be very hard to leave everything we know and love behind....especially our big kids.<BR/><BR/>Big Hugs to you my sweet friend.The Byrd's Nesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06729548930434689842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-48732568519285506002008-12-13T22:41:00.000-06:002008-12-13T22:41:00.000-06:00Carrie,I don't know you -- just got your blog from...Carrie,<BR/><BR/>I don't know you -- just got your blog from a friend because I have a daughter from China. So, this is a stranger encouraging you . . . that you're young and unencumbered right now . . . use that while you can, you will never regret it. You have many years to have your own mortgage, jobs, etc. and you can always have babies in China -- you don't have to be 30 to make your own!<BR/><BR/>Also, my best friend is a missionary and she always expresses the same feelings when she comes home -- of feeling like home is no longer home. I think you're pretty normal in that sense. Home is where your heart is.<BR/><BR/>You and Jacob are a huge blessing to those babies in China and I know that no matter what you decide . . . you will continue to bless those little orphans.<BR/><BR/>Blessings,<BR/><BR/>JoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-57300773255481422442008-12-12T21:39:00.000-06:002008-12-12T21:39:00.000-06:00A heart in two worlds is not an easy thing. I get...A heart in two worlds is not an easy thing. I get it.T and T Livesayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17612227041383997608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-18586014833909312582008-12-12T16:07:00.000-06:002008-12-12T16:07:00.000-06:00Carrie, YES! Please give MYa's sponsors our bl...Carrie, <BR/><BR/>YES! Please give MYa's sponsors our blog & email! We would love for them to be able to continue to see the difference they made in our little girl's life!!<BR/><BR/>sara_mcclintock@yahoo.com<BR/><BR/>Hugs, <BR/>SaraFootball and Fried Ricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06199596489592299649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-52646696934022791762008-12-12T15:03:00.000-06:002008-12-12T15:03:00.000-06:00What ever you chose it will be good because that i...What ever you chose it will be good because that is just the way he works. I will say there is so much richness in a simple life. Hey, I have an idea, let's life swap! That would be so much fun!<BR/><BR/>Much love!Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16879224807511280628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-3739763285448279492008-12-12T13:50:00.000-06:002008-12-12T13:50:00.000-06:00Carrie, you have an awesome way of putting your th...Carrie, you have an awesome way of putting your thoughts on paper.. Sometimes I envy you and your struggle between worlds... You are in our prayers.....<BR/><BR/>Love Ya Bunches<BR/>MelbaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-50617773468796865162008-12-11T21:18:00.000-06:002008-12-11T21:18:00.000-06:00you are chosen....i love your blog, i come here kn...you are chosen....i love your blog, i come here knowing i'll see a reflection of myself. Thanks, PamClayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18093875511004400700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-29552777794563840922008-12-11T17:00:00.000-06:002008-12-11T17:00:00.000-06:00You are a great writer. The way you convey your f...You are a great writer. The way you convey your feelings in your writing is awesome. I enjoy reading your blog.<BR/>JenThe Vinyardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01591059054023053822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-89255102363477743342008-12-11T16:38:00.000-06:002008-12-11T16:38:00.000-06:00Carrie--As always, your deep thinking leaves me th...Carrie--As always, your deep thinking leaves me thinking. I'm reading a book now about missionaries who worked in Vietnam from 1965-75 when the Communists took over and they had to leave. I stress HAD because the overwealming story from the women and their (now grown-up) daughters is how much they loved Vietnam and the people and how much it was home. One daughter told of how even now she sobs for days after watching a movie about Vietnam (part of this is that they lost all contact with people they left and have no idea what happened to them). I guess what I want to say is that whatever you choose will be a great choice--for both you and your children (can't wait to meet them, by the way!). VirginiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-66751337451899402812008-12-11T12:35:00.000-06:002008-12-11T12:35:00.000-06:00Very well written Carrie,the way you wrote it made...Very well written Carrie,the way you wrote it made me understand how you feel. I cant imagine how hard this is for you.JShannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08614749650718855387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7295309110117449262.post-41200054826865493462008-12-11T04:27:00.000-06:002008-12-11T04:27:00.000-06:00Carrie, Today, my hurting heart held babies that y...Carrie, <BR/><BR/>Today, my hurting heart held babies that you have prayed over. I pray that I am forever changed, as you obviously are....<BR/><BR/>XOXO, <BR/>SaraFootball and Fried Ricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06199596489592299649noreply@blogger.com